Monday, July 20, 2015

Bound Together

Saturday, we made a whirlwind trip to Alabama--there and back.  My dad's last living brother passed away earlier in the week from a short battle with cancer.   


You see, my dad had 2 brothers and both of them had kids that were the same ages as my brothers and I.  At one point, I think my mom and 2 of my aunts were pregnant at the same time.  There was a baby boom.  Because of that baby boom, I had lots of cousins to play with.  My grandparents had 18 grandchildren.  There were only 5 of us girls.  My uncle James' girls and I were like the three amigos in the midst of all those boys.  I remember running around our grandparent's yard playing on Sunday afternoons.  That's when all the kids would congregate after church.  My Nanny and Papa would be in the kitchen cooking up dozens of dishes to feed us all.  I'm sure not everything was perfect, but those are fond memories for me.

My extended family doesn't see each other very much and we say half-jokingly that we only see each other at funerals.  But we will always be family.  Bound together by blood and shared memories.

It's weird being with people that remember when you were born.  People that shared your same growing up experiences.  That remember your good and try to forget your bad.  Ones that look for you and wonder where you are if you don't make it back.

I don't go to funerals for the dead.  I go to show my love and support for the living.  The sweet aunt that was always so quiet and loving.  Those two little girls that were my partners in crime back in the day.  Their brother that was too little to really remember me now.  I go to express that even though I live so far away and have a life separate from here, I'm never really separated from the loss we collectively share.  The loss of our grandparents, my dad, his brothers, two cousins and my brother.  Bound together by loss.

 










Family....

Monday, July 13, 2015

Blessed....


Life has been insane!  Sickness, a trail derailment, first week of school, my birthday, my dad's brother being diagnosed with cancer and moved to hospice in a week's time and JP working all kinds of crazy hours.  

Here are snippets from the past week or so:

The cucumbers are doing awesome...crazy awesome!  I'm planning on making pickle relish today and putting cucumbers in every dish we eat.  (This is after I gave some away to three different people!)



Our annual first day of school treat!



We've been in school for a week and Michael is settling somewhat nicely into our school routine.  He has a checklist every day of tasks to complete.  For example, play a game, Easy Peasy Math 1, build with legos, Read for 30 minutes, etc.  It helps keep him on track especially if I'm working with Tera and Daniel.  We have things on the list we do together and things he can do on his own.  It worked really well for the first week.  We'll see if we need to tweak it as we go along.  

Tera is enjoying her high school course work and has settled into her daily schedule very quickly.  Daniel is studying the brain for science and loving every minute of it!  


Friday was my birthday and Michael really wanted me to wear a sombrero.  So, there ya go!




My husband treated me like a queen and my kids outdid themselves once more with the Acme Super Mommy Survival Kit

Complete with:

Acme Stress Reliever Handbook
The Mask of Optimism
The Bracelet of Power
The Ultimate Chill Pills for Cool-Headedness
The List Takers of doom
The fresher-upper of Conquerors
 


Even with all the craziness of schedules, sickness and literal train wrecks, we are blessed this day and every day! 

Monday, July 6, 2015

First Day of School 2015-2016




2015
















 What I want to be when I grow up:











2014


 I've been taking this same picture since Daniel was in kindergarten.
I can't believe how these kids have grown.  





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    2011









2010





2009



 2007



Tuesday, June 16, 2015

How to Pick a Family Movie with Teens and a Younger Child

So, we have had this problem:  How to pick a family movie when you have teens and a 6 year old with widely different tastes!  There are some movies Michael can't watch and the older two definitely don't want to watch Veggie Tales for movie night.  Tera and Daniel have been getting so frustrated, because Michael never wants to watch what they pick and vice versa.  They try to pick things they know he will enjoy, but he feels like he has no choice.  Then, the battle happens! 

We've tried having everyone rotate picking what to watch for movie night.  We've tried having a little kid movie and an older kid movie going on simultaneously in two different locations.  I think we've found our new solution that makes everyone happy while all watching together!

Here's what we did:

1.  First, have each child pick 10-12 movies they would like to watch.  I had to steer Michael away from Veggie Tales and other shorter movies.  I told him those were "episodes" and he could pick those a different time during the week.  

2.  Bring everyone's piles together on the table and have each child pick 2 movies from each stack including their own.  




3.  Put those movies into a list. We use The Hat program.  The first six movies we picked from The Hat are our next 6 weeks of movie nights. 

4.  I divided the other movie choices in half-highlighting some pink and the rest blue.  For extra movie choices, each person picks one from a list.  We put those three choices in The Hat and pick one.   We'll alternate between the pink and blue list. 



When we've exhausted this list, we'll start over again with a new list.  

What's awesome about this?
  • Everyone gets a voice and a choice.
  • Teaches the kids to appreciate another person's choice
  • Picking a movie is no longer a battle of wills.
  • Teaches everyone to compromise
  • By the time the list is made, your choices have all melded together into one.




Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Raw Apple Crisp

This is my new favorite snack/dessert!



Raw Apple Crisp

1 medium apple
cinnamon
honey
old fashioned oats
sunflower seeds or nuts of your choice
cranberries or raisins


Dice or slice your apple.

Sprinkle on cinnamon.

Top with old fashioned oats, sunflower seeds and cranberries (or raisins)

Drizzle with honey!

Enjoy!

Monday, June 8, 2015

8 Kitchen Skills to Teach Your Kids


Confession: When I got married my cooking skills were very limited. How limited? I had a handle on macaroni and cheese, hot dogs, scrambled eggs, ramen noodles and making a grilled cheese with an iron. Once, I even ruined a BOX of brownies! 

Throughout the years, my skills have drastically improved. I'm pretty good in the kitchen now, if I do say so myself. Since I waited until I became an adult to acquire any kitchen skills, I wanted to make sure that didn't happen with my own children. My 14 year old daughter is very accomplished in the kitchen. She cooks all the time! My two boys are not as interested, but it's still important for them to learn the basics.

There are 8 basic kitchen skills that your kids should know:  

1. Safety 

In my opinion, these are the most important rules for safety in the kitchen:  

Washing hands Wash hands before you start! Your kids should also know after touching things that are not food (hair, eyes, face, surfaces), they need to wash their hands again during the food preparation process.  

"Hot glass looks like cold glass!" Always teach your children to touch glass pans with a pot holder when they are cooking.  

Cross-contamination Great lesson plan on teaching this subject. 

Pot handles on a stove are always pointed in! 

Say "Behind you!" or "Coming through-Hot!" when moving around other people in the kitchen.  

2. Measuring  

One of the first skills you should teach is measuring. How to use a measuring cup and spoon are great ways to incorporate younger children into food preparation. 
  
3. Following a recipe 

Following a recipe is often overlooked. It's a great skill where the benefits extend to other areas of learning. I ruined that box of brownies because I didn't follow the directions. Always start with simple recipes and move to more complicated ones as your child's skills improve. There is nothing you cannot accomplish in the kitchen, if you can read and follow a recipe!  

4. Cracking Eggs 


Oh my! This can be a really messy skill to teach! 

This is what I tell my kids: 
1. When you are first learning, always crack your eggs one at a time into a different bowl. (That way if things go crazy, you can start from scratch.) 
2. Tap the center of the egg on the counter. 
3. Put your thumbs on either side of the cracked part. 
4. Without pushing your thumbs in, grip the egg and pull apart....over a bowl! 

I love this pictorial tutorial of: How to crack an egg 



5. Cutting/Knife Skills 

When to teach cutting skills depends upon the child. I've seen it suggested that the child be at LEAST 5 years old. I personally would never give my 5 year old a chef's knife. At that age, we practice with a butter knife and when ready move onto a steak knife. My 14 year old is very capable with a chef's knife. (Her dad taught her!) 

I love this infographic! 
Teaching various cutting terminology is also important. Kitchen 101: Cutting 

6. Using Kitchen Tools 

Start off gradually and build up to the point where your child can use all your kitchen tools and appliances without injury. Each child is different, so I won't add ages to these groupings. Start with : measuring cups, roller pin, potato masher, garlic press. Move to: whisk, microwave, graters, can openers, stove top Finally: oven, special appliances, food processor, griddle, chef knives  

7. Simple Food Preparation 

My goal by the time my children leave our home is that they will be able to prepare simple meals for themselves and others. They should be able to prepare easy and nutritious breakfast, lunch and dinner recipes. Let your child pick their own recipes!  

8. Cleaning up 

Last, but certainly not least! Never let your children think they can come in the kitchen, make a big mess cooking and leave it for someone else to clean up. One day you won't be around to clean up after their food preparation and they need to learn that skill. This includes: putting back ingredients after use, wiping down counters, washing pots and pans and/or loading the dish washer, and cleaning up any other messes.   

If you are looking for age-appropriate skills, Thirty Handmade Days has a great resource with skills listed by age level.    

If you want your kids to have great kitchen skills, I'll leave you with two pieces of advice:  

Start young! Give age-appropriate skills to your kids when they are very young. 


Practice often! Give lots of opportunities for practice. Forget about the messes and perfect products.

Oh, and don't forget to HAVE FUN!!!!

Sunday, June 7, 2015

VBS 2015


This is our third year to attend the VBS at the First Baptist Church!  To say that it is the highlight of our kids' summer would be an understatement!  

I decided not to follow them around this year snapping pictures.  So, I only got pictures during the sanctuary times.  They had a blast doing crafts, learning about God's love, eating a whole lot of good food, singing/dancing and playing fun games!  Their really good friends came this year, which made the week even more enjoyable!  
 






















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